Comments on: The easiest way to change your life

By: Warren

Warren — Tue, 27 Dec 2011 21:21:44 +0000

Agree completely. Never associate with people who make your stomach churn.

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The Ladder and the Elevator: Choose One | alex j. mann (.com) — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 12:02:44 +0000

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By: Angel

Angel — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 16:52:49 +0000

Most people will never be aware of the dramatically seriousness of the sentence by Jim Rohn (“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with”).

Personally, I never started to grow as a lawyer until I realized about that. Now, I spread the word of the important and direct relationship between your most frequented group and your own personal development level.

Excellent post. Thanks.

By: John

John — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 04:11:15 +0000

As a business owner joining Entrepreneur’s Organization (Membership criteria of $1M+ annual revenue + controlling partner + < 50 years old) has proven to be an invaluable ticket to associate with a fairly exclusive group of terrific high fliers. My business is around $3M so there are plenty of members with bigger businesses to help stretch me but, just as rewarding, I have a chance to help raise level of attainment of others as well.

By: lurker

lurker — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 13:13:47 +0000

I feel you need to use a word that is different from “friend” as loyalty is a quality of friendship lacking here. FWIW and IMHO, of course.
Seek out “mentors” perhaps? Seems very shallow to dump people for “better” folks who can help your career and call everyone a “friend” but maybe that is just me…

By: charhoehn@gmail.com

charhoehn@gmail.com — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 20:39:28 +0000

Hey Pat, can you clarify what you mean by your last sentence? I’d like to know what you’re having trouble with specifically, and which directions you’re considering.

I think the best thing to do is just get started. Even if you make a few missteps, it’s far better than being paralyzed by overanalyzing things.

By: Pat

Pat — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 13:26:31 +0000

I appreciate this article a lot. As some here have suggested, lately i’ve been trying to avoid people who I think bring nothing but negativity to me (as opposed to realism, which is important in measured doses).

But I think I need to spend a lot of time really, really working on who I want to know. Because while i’ve thought about it before, I genuinely feel torn in too many directions and am uncertain which to go along.